I have just got back from a wonderful week in the sun (seems I picked a good week to be away with all this rain). I am therefore feeling very relaxed but at the same time very behind with my blogging. I wanted to share this one with you as I think the world definitely needs more laughter.

We went to see Seinfeld a few weeks ago which was his first time in London, and for those of you who are Seinfeld fans and didn’t go – you missed a fantastic night. I always think it is such an amazing gift to be able to stand up on a stage and make people laugh for 90 minutes – what a great job.

As I left there (with my cheeks aching) I just thought how good laughing makes one feel and how many people just don’t seem to laugh enough. I know life can be hard and at times it certainly isn’t appropriate to laugh but it is something we could all benefit from doing on a daily basis.

The interesting thing was that all Jerry’s material was just about normal day-to-day stuff that people do. Comedians are masters at observing human behaviour and relaying it back to us…

I found the following Benefits of Laughter on the Internet and thought they were worth sharing with you.

  1. Laughter is contagious – we all know this is true.
  2. Laughter triggers the release of endorphins, the body’s natural painkillers and producers a general sense of well-being.
  3. Laughter generally increases activity within in the immune system. It also decreases stress hormones. I tend to think happy people do seem to be less sickly than unhappy people.
  4. Laughter is even equivalent to a small about of exercise. It massages all organs of the body – according to a certain Dr James Walsh.
  5. Laughter builds relationships.
  6. Laughter disarms tension and stress.
  7. Humour brings the balance we need to get through the turbulence of life comfortably.
  8. Laughter adds spice to life and to add my own – laughter makes life more fun!

Therefore – go out there and try to find humour in your daily life.

As a life coach I learn so much from my clients, which is one of the reasons why I love what I do and never feel like it is work. I had such a great session today, which my client has given permission for me to share.

When she started life coaching she wanted to have everything happen at once – she felt that it was all taking too long and she wanted it all now. Today she told me that she realised that her greatest learning during the coaching journey has been Acceptance – acceptance that time cannot be fast-forwarded, that the clock only ticks as fast as it is meant to. As she held her little daughters feet in her hands she realised how much they had already grown and it made her realise how quickly time does actually move but if we wish it away we don’t notice the subtle changes which we can never get back. I thought it was something for us all to remember that we need to learn to live in the moment and realise that the future will only happen as fast as it is meant to and in the meantime the lesson is to notice the immediate moment of which we will never get back.

Children are our greatest markers of time as they grow so quickly – we do too but we don’t realise it as we are rushing around so much worrying about what we should be doing or agonising over what we didn’t do. Just stop, take a deep breath and accept that life moves at the pace it is meant to. If we don’t we will always be in a constant state of exhaustion and frustration.